Don't want to get into details with your mom? Just tell her you're having itching and discomfort "down there" and would like to get checked out.
Girls can have vaginal infections for all sorts of reasons that have nothing to do with sexual contact — such as stress, for example. Even if you're not having intercourse, fingering and oral sex can lead to infection.
Ask your boyfriend to wash his hands before touching your genitals. And if either of you has a cold sore, don't have oral sex. The virus that causes cold sores can transfer to the genitals and become genital herpes. I have to have visuals, so I watch porn.
It's hard for me to just imagine stuff. I'm not embarrassed that I masturbate; if we're close enough and you ask me, I won't deny it at all. Or sometimes when I'm texting my friends in the group chat I'll be like, "brb gonna go mb. I used to be really ashamed about it, though.
When I first started masturbating, I'd use either my fingers or my shower head. Now that I'm 18, I bought myself a vibrator. It was kind of an accident. I had a pillow between my legs to keep them from sticking to each other, and next thing I knew, I was humping the pillow.
I usually start off reading sexy stories on Tumblr or porn websites, hump my pillow, and then start to use my hand. I've never talked to anyone about masturbating because I feel like I'd get judged for doing it. But the older I get and the more I hear about women masturbating, the better I feel about it. I don't think of masturbating as a bad thing anymore.
It was a really awkward and clumsy experience, and I felt guilty for doing it. I just use my hand, and usually if I'm in the mood to do it, I really don't need to think about anything else to help. It makes me feel proud that I'm secure enough with myself and my body to do it. I'm not ashamed at all because theres nothing wrong with doing it. It's a great way to relieve stress. It was a super uncomfortable feeling.
I think because I felt like it was a 'dirty' thing to do — even though the reason I was trying it in the first place was to familiarize myself with my body while I'm alone so I'd be comfortable and know my body when I was with my boyfriend as our relationship got more serious. I just Googled how to do it. The website I read had a ton of different ways to do it. I used my shower head. I switched the water power setting to a soft little stream.
I moved past feeling dirty or embarrassed about masturbating, because I realized how comfy I am with my body now. I'm proud that I'm so in tune with myself. At first, I didn't know what to do, and then I kind of just learned to move my hips around to get different feelings. I like to fantasize about guys when I'm doing it and I let the faucet do all the work.
I want to try it with a dildo or vibrator, but I just don't have the guts to go buy one and risk getting caught with it in my room. I think they felt uncomfortable and a little astonished that I was so open with my sexuality. I think masturbation is a completely normal and healthy expression of loving your body and who you are.
Over the years, I've shifted from feeling guilty to feeling proud of my body. If your hymen has already gone, great, no problem. It takes a lot of practice and instruction to finger a girl right, usually with repeated, high-quality sexual experiences with the same person.
Everyone likes it a bit different. Get him to read this guide on the basics of bringing a woman pleasure with his fingers for more information. Being the passive recipient of a finger is at best boring, at worst painful and bloody, particularly afterward. Best-case scenario you find yourself having fun and at very, very best, have a very sexy experience. It is unlikely this fingering will be very sexy, since it is your first, so you may as well make it fun while preparing for an underwhelming experience.
Make out lots. Touch his body if you feel like it and see what he likes. Make it an experience you have together , not an appointment you have made to be fingered by him. You both have mixed feelings about this scared and curious, yes, him too — ask him! Laugh about it, do lots of kissing and do just a little bit of very soft, slow investigating using fingers, or tongues, or just a bit of dry humping, definitely using lube — water or silicone-based is fine — and get him onto your clitoris, not into your vagina.
They need to get your clitoris involved, or being fingered by an overzealous teenage boy is worse than watching paint dry. What are they hoping will happen? Will a genie pop out if they poke hard enough? They need help, and lots of it.
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